Spread joy, kindness, love, happiness! Give advice - save a life, support everything you believe in. Be opinionated and unafraid to speak your mind. Just LOVE.Tumblr (3.0; @tobealover)http://tobealover.tumblr.com/<a href="http://breannacaroline.tumblr.com/post/18505919869/big-fan-of-charlene-kaye">I met my baby in a bathroom stall: Big fan of Charlene Kaye?</a>: <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://breannacaroline.tumblr.com/post/18505919869/big-fan-of-charlene-kaye">breannacaroline</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Are you as obsessed with <em>Animal Love I </em>as I am? I’m sure you are because that song is sinfully addictive. Ever since I first heard it, my friends and I have done nothing but dance and sing our asses off to it.</p> <p>While trying to contain myself to not break out in song and dance to <em>Animal Love I</em>…</p> </blockquote>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/18538680396http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/18538680396Wed, 29 Feb 2012 23:59:10 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ly66df9T7E1r2t3r1o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/18273618384http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/18273618384Sat, 25 Feb 2012 17:10:44 -0500<p>Have you asked anyone if they need help lately?</p> <p>Or just offered to help without being asked?</p> <p>Have you hugged your mom or dad?</p> <p>Have you kissed your sister or brother?</p> <p>The smile you get will be reward enough.</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/16748208109http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/16748208109Mon, 30 Jan 2012 00:34:24 -0500helpedto be a lovermomdadsisterbrothersmilereward<p>This week is for letters! Dear Harry, Ron, Hermione, Draco, Fred, JK Rowling, Apple&#8230;</p> <p><br/>To Be a Lover &lt;3</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15654744565http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15654744565Tue, 10 Jan 2012 22:40:10 -0500To Be A Loverharry potterharry porrer weekdear...dear harryletters to harry<p>Today has obviously been all about Dumbledore, and so will the next time we post!</p> <p><br/>(SO sorry about the fact that we haven&#8217;t been consistent. Life manages to get in the way sometimes - but that&#8217;s okay!)</p> <p><br/>Get ready for some more pictures and quotes of the great wizard himself!</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15286343472http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15286343472Wed, 04 Jan 2012 02:11:05 -0500To Be A Loverharry potter weekdumbledore<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx9dxkY8S21qklvepo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282559513http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282559513Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:29:44 -0500harry potter weekHarry PotterTo Be A Loverdumbledore<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx9dwrQfA71qklvepo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282537944http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282537944Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:29:15 -0500to be a loverharry potter weekdumbledore<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx9dv34AUs1qklvepo1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx9dv34AUs1qklvepo2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282494677http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282494677Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:28:00 -0500harry potter weekTo Be A Loverdumbledoresirius black<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx9dtyjh1z1qklvepo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282462902http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282462902Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:27:34 -0500To Be A Loverharry potter weekdumbledore<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lx9dspPPPt1qklvepo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282429526http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15282429526Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:26:49 -0500to be a loverharry potterdumbledore<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lq1aa8NpQC1qllic9o1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lq1aa8NpQC1qllic9o2_400.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lq1aa8NpQC1qllic9o3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://getstooobsessed.tumblr.com/post/9004061623/mommy-they-are-just-like-me-my-oldest-son-is">getstooobsessed</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p class="MsoNormal"><strong>“Mommy, they are just like me.”<span>  </span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal">My oldest son is six years old and in love for the first time.<span>  </span>He is in love with Blaine from Glee.<span>  </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">For those who don’t know Blaine is a boy…a gay boy, the boyfriend of one of the main characters, Kurt.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">This isn’t a ‘he thinks Blaine is really cool’ kind of love.<span>  </span>It is a mooning at a picture of Blaine’s face for a half hour followed by a wistful “He’s so pretty” kind of love.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">He loves the episode where two boys kiss.<span>  </span>My son will call people in from other parts of the house to make sure they don’t miss his ‘favorite part.’<span>  </span>He’s been known to rewind it and watch it over again…and force other to, as well, if he doesn’t think people have been paying enough attention.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">This infatuation doesn’t bother me or his father.<span>  </span>We live in a very hip-liberal neighborhood, many of our friends are gay, and idea of having a gay son isn’t something that bothers either of us.<span>  </span>Our son is going to be who he is, and it is our job to love him.<span>  </span>End of story.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">He is also six.<span>  </span>Six year olds get obsessed with all kinds of things.<span>  </span>This might not mean anything at all.<span>  </span>We always joke that he’s either gay, or we have the best blackmail material in the history of mankind when he’s a 16 year old straight boy.<span> (</span>Take that naked bath time pictures!)</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Then the other day we were traveling across the state listening to the Warblers album (of course), and in the middle of Candles, my son pipes up from the back seat.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Mommy, Kurt and Blaine are boyfriends.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Yes, they are,” I affirm.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“They don’t like kissing girls.<span>  </span>They just kiss boys.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“That’s true.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“Mommy, they are just like me.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“That’s great, baby.<span>  </span>You know I love you no matter what?”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“I know…” I could hear him rolling his eyes at me.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">When we got home I recapped this conversation to his Dad, and we stood simply looking into each other’s eyes for a moment.<span>  </span>Then we smiled.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">“So if at 16 he wants to make a big announcement at the dinner table, we can say ‘You told us when you were six.<span>  </span>Pass the carrots’ and he’ll be disappointed we stole his big dramatic moment,” my husband says with a laugh and hugs me.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Only time will tell if my son is gay, but if he is I am glad he’s mine.<span>  </span>I am glad he has been born into our family.<span>  </span>A family full of people who will love and accept him.<span>  </span>People who will never want him to change.<span>  </span>With parents who will look forward to dancing at his wedding.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">And I have to admit, Blaine would be a really cute son-in-law.</p> </blockquote>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15006970055http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/15006970055Thu, 29 Dec 2011 23:00:01 -0500<p>Let&#8217;s face it: Harry Potter has literally changed the world and billions of lives all in one go. This series of books and movies has given people faith and a source of light, even through the darkest times.</p> <p>Starting today (12/28/11) until&#8230; whenever we decide to stop, we&#8217;ll be posting Harry Potter pictures, quotes, letters, questions. Anything and everything that we can. We will also try to make every day a type of theme - perhaps one dedicated to the Golden Trio and another all about the Weasley family. You know?</p> <p>But, please don&#8217;t forget that you can post just as much as you want as well!</p> <p>Do you like/love Harry Potter? Or perhaps you dislike it. Why?</p> <p>Happy Harry Potter Week everyone!</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14927668635http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14927668635Wed, 28 Dec 2011 13:50:00 -0500To Be A Loverharry potterharry potter week<p>We have a follower!</p> <p><br/>This is incredible and almost made R spit out her tea this morning! Seriously!</p> <p>We appreciate the fact that you wanted to keep us on your dashboard and ask that you tell your other tumblr buds about tobealover, or even just submit pictures, questions, quotes, etc&#8230;</p> <p><br/>Hoping you are well!</p> <p>To Be a Lover</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14927454604http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14927454604Wed, 28 Dec 2011 13:45:49 -0500To Be A Loverfollower<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwmlf3KX2Z1qklvepo1_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwmlf3KX2Z1qklvepo2_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwmlf3KX2Z1qklvepo3_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p>MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14766807460http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14766807460Sun, 25 Dec 2011 10:05:06 -0500to be a lovermerry christmaschristmas trees<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwmlddxa4X1qklvepo1_250.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>It’s Christmas Eve and you’re snuggling up beside the fire with a great movie! Maybe you’re home for the holidays and mom is in the kitchen baking cookies and dad is drinking some good ‘ole egg nog!</p> <p>Either way, get on those warm socks and prepare for a wonderful day tomorrow!</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14746826724http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14746826724Sat, 24 Dec 2011 20:00:06 -0500to be a loverchristmas evewarm socksegg nog<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml1y3qwZ1qklvepo1_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml1y3qwZ1qklvepo2_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml1y3qwZ1qklvepo3_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p>Holiday treats!</p> <p>What’s your favorite thing to munch on Christmas Eve?</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14727262080http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14727262080Sat, 24 Dec 2011 12:10:05 -0500snackssanta's cookieschristmas evechristmasto be a lover<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml9dzXuQ1qklvepo1_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml9dzXuQ1qklvepo2_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml9dzXuQ1qklvepo3_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml9dzXuQ1qklvepo4_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p>Do you get snow this time of year? We here at Lover sure don’t, so send us your pictures! It gives us such a happy feeling inside :)</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14670919719http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14670919719Fri, 23 Dec 2011 10:00:06 -0500To Be A Loverchristmassnowholidays<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwmlgv5R9y1qklvepo1_250.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Not just girls, but boys and people everywhere! This is the most wonderful time of the year - so let the stress and worry of life drain away and just enjoy yourself.</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14635050928http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14635050928Thu, 22 Dec 2011 17:07:43 -0500to be a loverchristmasgirlsboysenjoy the holidays<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml6xh01L1qklvepo1_250.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>We know, we know - we’re late. BUT, it’s NEVER too late to say HELLO to December!</p> <p>Happy Holidays!</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14634919229http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14634919229Thu, 22 Dec 2011 17:05:05 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml5295Zx1qklvepo1_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwml5295Zx1qklvepo2_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p>Lights of all colors!</p> <p>Do you decorate the house too?</p>http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14634694518http://tobealover.tumblr.com/post/14634694518Thu, 22 Dec 2011 17:00:00 -0500to be a loverchristmasholidayslightschristmas lights